Sunday, March 29, 2009

Hide and Seek

This week with hubby out of town, I needed to find alternative child-care arrangements. A friend (whom my kids know well enough but one who had never watched them a full day) generously offered to come to my house for the day. My day started off with a hormone headache which was compounded by three hours in stale cigarette smoke and not enough lunch. I was just pulling up to the curb at my afternoon appointment when my cell phone rang.

"Joy? I just need you to listen." Okay
"Your son is missing." What???? He wanted to play outside and someone snatched him.
"Are there any places in the house where he likes to hide?" Are we sure he's still in the house?

After asking questions and confirming that there was no way he could've gotten outside, nor was he in any of the bathrooms, I was really confused and growing more concerned. She had checked through the house at least twice already.

The younger kids were reportedly playing nicely in the living room, so I sent my friend on a treasure hunt.
"Check the cupboard behind the couch."
"What about the coat closet - he can open those doors and used to hide in there a lot."
"Did he crawl into the dog's cage downstairs? We were talking about it yesterday."
Where could this kid be? He's never done this before.... Is she sure he's in the house?
"Go upstairs. He sometimes goes in my closet or my bathroom. Check under the bed, too. It's a tall bed."
"What about behind the rocking chair in Thing Two's room?"
"Check his closet - he can get in there and it's hard to get out."

Sure enough, that's where he was. Hiding in his closet. I apparently maintained a calm veneer, but inside my imagination was filled with police helicopters and bloodhounds. At that moment, Todd came home and in relief, my friend hung up. I didn't have the opportunity to decompress as I then attended my afternoon appointment with another 2 hours of stale cigarette smoke. And I think I have yet to get the full story, but in the words of Pa Ingalls, "all's well that ends well."

Monday, March 9, 2009

Sinking Sand (i.e. the stock market)

Over the past few months, I have noticed that I am doing certain things less often including opening any investment statement, listening to the Wall Street reports of the day and taking in any media regarding the economy. I did manage to catch that the unemployment in Michigan is 8% (which really means that 92% of people ARE employed). I know people who can't get a call in to the unemployment office as the lines as so busy. Our investments would bring only half the value of a year ago if we decided to cash them out (which we are NOT going to do...).

There is a lot at stake for many people - jobs, businesses, homes, retirement income. It's stressful. It's emotional. It's discouraging. It's only money. It's not eternity. One of my favorite hymns has been playing through my mind and I wanted to share the first verse:

My hope is built on nothing less
than Jesus love and righteousness.
I dare not trust the sweetest fame
but wholly lean on Jesus name.
On Christ the Solid Rock I stand
All other ground is sinking sand
All other ground is sinking sand.
Thing One and I were talking about 'scawy sings' (scary things) tonight. We talked about a special verse from the Psalms that he knows well enough to repeat on his own. "He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty." As one of our favorite characters from The Pond puts it, "My friends, we are well taken care of."